When your man doesn’t want anyone else to have you, he will do these 6 things more often
1) He Treats You Like A Queen
Instead of saying he wants you, he shows you through actions. He might not be getting down on one knee and asking you to be his girlfriend, but he shows his affection in a different way. He showers you with texts, gifts, affection, or maybe even time.
If you’re honest with yourself, sometimes this even feels like it’s too much, like he’s love bombing you. Sometimes guys resort to being overly sweet thinking that’s what’s going to win women over. Maybe he treats you like a queen because he’s afraid you’ll turn your head and be whisked away by some other prince charming.
2) He Remembers All The Little Details
One way he might be proving he doesn’t want to lose you is by repeating back things you’ve mentioned in the past, whether it’s an offhand comment you made or a poignant childhood memory. In his own little way, remembering the little details is his way of saying “your words have value to me”.
3) He Tries Hard In Bed
Ever heard the saying “leave them wanting more?” All these great s*x moves might just be a ploy to get you to stick around longer. He doesn’t want you to forget him the minute you leave the bedroom so he gives you a lot to remember.
After all, how could you even begin to think about someone else when you’re still recovering from a particularly steamy session? He might not be outwardly possessive but this could be one of the ways he shows you exactly where you belong: with him.
4) He Asks About New Guys In Your Life
Whenever a new guy enters your life — be it a classmate who asked for your number or a new co-worker asking you out to eat — the first one to ask about it is him. He’s super curious about any new guy who appears on your friend’s list or phone contacts, and he wants to know everything about that guy (and of course, how you feel about him).
When he does this, it’s a clear sign that he feels that he should already be your boyfriend, but for some reason, he just doesn’t know how to cross that line. So instead he has to worry that every new guy who enters your life might think that you’re single and ready to mingle — which you are.
5) He Gets Bothered When You Go Out With Someone Else
So you went out on a date with another man. You did nothing wrong — you’re single and available, no matter how much of a crush “he” might have on you. And he knows he can’t say anything negative about it because he’s not technically your boyfriend (even though he acts like it half the time).
But that doesn’t mean he won’t be bothered about it. You’ll feel him seething quietly when you’re around him, itching to give you a piece of his mind even though he has absolutely no right to do it.
He’ll try to learn everything he can about the other guy, even asking your friends about him, but at the end of the day, he knows that if he wants you to stop dating other people, he has to make a serious move on you for himself.
6 ) He’s Always the First To Come To Your Aid
There’s no better way to convince a person that you’re their soulmate than always being the first one to come to their aid when they ask for it. He knows that since you’re single (and amazing), then you’ll probably have a ton of guys waiting to lend you a hand whenever you need some help, and he can’t let that happen.
So that means he always has to be first. If he’s always rushing to help you out, it’s clearly because he doesn’t want anyone else to gain your approval and attention.