We all love our family, but sometimes stress can lead us to do hurtful things. This story is about a young lady Traditional_Honey19. She was 21 years old. She shared her story about agreeing to care for her sister’s dog when she was in labor. Her sister gave her a detailed instruction on how to take care of her dog, including using a harness for the dog when taking him outside. She takes good care of her dog and takes him outside. After the walk, the dog ran into the living room when she hadn’t fully removed his harness which her sister’s boyfriend saw on FaceTime.
After some time, she received angry texts from her sister accusing her of being unreliable and mistreating her dog. Then she kicked her and their mom out of the house and said that they were not allowed to see the baby until they earned her trust back.
Then the next day, her sister apologized for her behavior, saying that her reaction was due to stress and hormones. She invites them to meet the baby. The visit was okay, but when her sister asked her why she was so quiet. She politely answered that she was hurt by how she kicked her and their mother out of the house and insulted her. Instead of understanding her sister became angry again and told her to the house.
Since then, they have not talked to each other, and now Traditional_Honey19 wondering if was wrong to want her sister to understand her feelings in such a stressful time.
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2. OP’s elder sister was a perfectionist she asked her to take care of her dog when she was in labor. She gave her a detailed instruction.
3. OP took the dog outside. After the walk dog ran into the living room when hadn’t removed his harness fully. Her sister’s boyfriend saw it on FaceTime. Her sister sends angry texts accusing her of mistreating her puppy.
4. Then her sister called her, shouted at her, and called her lazy and unreliable. And told her and their mom to leave the house right away.
5. The next day OP’s sister called and apologized for her behavior. But when she expressed how much she and her mom hurt.
6. Her sister didn’t understand and got defensive
Let’s find out how the AITA responds to this:
7. NTA. Having a baby is not the free pass to mistreat you, just because she was upset. Keep your distance to avoid further issues.
8. If she accepts being treated badly by her sister now, she will do it again and again.
9. You should not watch the dog or baby until your sister realizes her mistake and apologizes sincerely.
10. This is a common trick for people like them. So be ready as your sister and her boyfriend use this threat to not see the baby again in the future.
