We often find ourselves in humiliating situations, even with our closest friends. This is what exactly happened to a young woman. Op was the maid of honor at her friend’s wedding. She was so excited about this marriage but something strange happened. She had been in a long-term relationship. The bride asked her not to attend the wedding with her boyfriend. This made her upset but her boyfriend understood and explained to her that weddings are expensive and they didn’t know him. So, they are probably trying to keep the guest list short. Being a good friend, she understood her and went to the wedding alone.
A few days before the wedding her friend asked her to give a ride to the best man. Although this made her uncomfortable, she did for her friend. After all that, when she arrived at the venue, she noticed that every bridesmaid had their boyfriends with them. She was the only one who was asked not to bring her boyfriend with her.
The next day, before the rehearsal dinner bride and groom told her that the best was a very nice guy and you should give him a chance. She tells them she’s been in a serious relationship. They said he was not serious with her because he was, he would have proposed to her.
All this made her very upset and after arguing for a while, she decided to leave the wedding. After she left, they called her terrible names. On her way home, she ignored all calls from her friends. Then her boyfriend called her and told her that the bride said that she had left the wedding for no reason. After all that people blamed her for leaving the wedding.
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2. OP was meant to be the bride of honor, but she left the ceremony when the bride asked her to set up with the best man.
3. OP was very excited for her friend’s wedding, but when bride ask her not to bring her boyfriend, she got very upset.
4. A few days before wedding bride ask OP to give best man a ride. Although the best man’s conversation made her feel awkward. But she tried to be polite for her friend.
5. When she arrived at the venue, she noticed something strange. All the bridesmaids had their boyfriends with them and she was asked to share room with the best man.
6. Before the rehearsal dinner bride and groom told OP that she was too rude to the best man. She should give him a chance. She argued for a while that she had a serious boyfriend, but at the end she decides to leave.
7. On her way home, she ignored all calls from her friends.
8. After the wedding everyone blamed OP for leaving. No one listens her side of story. Now she is worried.
The AITA community expressed the following opinions regarding this story:
9. It’s okay to take time in a relationship. It does not need a proposal in a long time relationship to be serious.
10. OP and her boyfriend are too young and marriage should not be the focus for them right now.
11. OP is still underage and of course not ready to get married.
12. It make sense to wait, finish school and be settled, before spending a lot of money on the wedding.
13. NTA of course, you had every right to leave the wedding, when bride and groom disrespect you and your relationship.
