Love is something we all hope to find one day. However, what if you’re in a relationship and are having a hard time?
This doesn’t mean relationships won’t have complications; it’s always good to resolve any issues you have. When you think of a life partner for yourself, you want someone you can communicate with and trust. However, what are some of the red flags we don’t always notice in a relationship? These are the major reasons why you shouldn’t marry him.
1. He breaks his promises.
If your partner promises you something and doesn’t fulfill his promises, it shows that he doesn’t care that much about you. When your partner breaks his promises, it shows lack of respect and trust and you can’t have a long-lasting relationship if these two elements are missing from it.
2. He doesn’t respect you
If he doesn’t value your opinions, it shows that he doesn’t perceive you as his equal. He may actually feel that you are inferior to him. He, of all people, should stand by your side and listen to what you have to say, and take your word into consideration, so you can make decisions together. He may not be the right guy for you if he doesn’t treat you as his equal.
3. He hurts you mentally and emotionally.
It doesn’t matter how much you love your partner, if he behaves physically or emotionally ᴀʙᴜsɪᴠᴇ towards you, you should leave him right away instead of expecting that he will change. A person who truly loves you would never make you feel afraid of him.
4. He stagnates the relationship
You can want to move on to the next step but he wants to keep everything the way it is. He is happy with things stagnating and being the same, similar to when you first started dating. He won’t let you meet his parents, take you home, and meet his friends. He doesn’t talk about your future or tell you anything that is important to him. A man like that is not serious about the relationship and isn’t on the same page as you. Although you may be serious about him, he definitely doesn’t feel the same. A man who wants you in his life will introduce you to people close to him and would want to move forward.
5. He ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛs.
ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ is one of the worst mistakes a person can do in his relationship. Even if he apologizes and promises to never behave like this again, trusting such person can be quite frustrating after it.