If you are doing these things, you are unfaithful to your partner

If you are doing these things, you are unfaithful to your partner

When it comes to being unfaithful, your mind instantly jumps to the idea of ¢нєαтιиg. However, it doesn’t always mean that. In fact, there are many things that someone could do, which would be considered, as being unfaithful and some of them might sh0ck you!

1. White Lies

A little white lie can’t hurt, can it? The simple answer to that is yes, if you have a reason to lie about something then you are being unfaithful to your spouse. A marriage should have an open and truthful dialogue at all times, as soon, as you introduce lies, even if they are only small, you are asking for trouble. A marriage’s foundations are built on trust and the one sure way to break trust is to be caught out when lying.

2. Flirting with Intention

Flirting with intention when you are married isn’t okay to do, ever. Even if you don’t pursue the person you are flirting with, you did have the intention and that is just as bad. Imagine how your spouse would feel if they ever found out about those intentions and imagine how you would feel if it was the other way round.

3. Dressing to Impress

If you dress up for your own self confidence then that’s fine, if it’s for your spouse then it is fine, but if you are dressing to impress someone else then this is essentially being unfaithful to your spouse. As a person who is married, you shouldn’t have the desire for others to want you.

4. Lying About Who You are With

If you are spending time with a person that you know your spouse doesn’t like, or wouldn’t like should they know about them, then you really shouldn’t be lying about it, especially if there really isn’t anything going on. If your spouse finds out that you have been lying, then they will not believe that the meetings were innocent and will accuse you of being unfaithful. If you know that the person you are with will cause arguments between you are your spouse, then you should really consider the value of seeing the person in question.

5. Not Disclosing the Fact that You are Married

If you deliberately hide the fact that you are married, then you need to ask yourself why you have done this and what intentions you have for doing it. If you find yourself hiding the fact then you are married, then that probably means that you have intentions in pursuing the person in question and that isn’t okay.

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