There are some women born natural goddesses. They are not necessarily the most beautiful, but their beauty radiates from the inside, which was built upon self-confidence and self-esteem. This is what men find irresistible. Men are drawn to high-value women the same way bees are attracted to honey.
Do you consider yourself one of those women? But the good news is, being a high-value woman is second nature to all of us. We are goddesses by birthright! Most of us just haven’t unraveled it yet. What do men find in women that makes them so attractive that they just have to commit? Here are 8 traits of a high-value woman that make them irresistible to men.
1. She is always kind
This is a wonderful trait to have when you want someone that is gracious and not just to the people they have to be but to everyone. She makes you feel respected and supported. She doesn’t belittle you or focus on what she wishes you were like. Kindness, warmth, and generosity are incredibly attractive, and absolutely necessary to a healthy, long term relationship.
2. She is easy going
Men love those who are easy-going, can relax, not try to control every situation. For instance, if your man is making dinner for you, and chopping tomatoes, don’t tell to cut them half in cubes or one-inch cubes. Instead, let him do his thing.
3. She’s mysterious
She is full of rich, colorful layers, carefully peeling each layer one by one to her lover, making her man gasp with delight with each new discovery. Mystery is what keeps relationships new. She is capable of stepping outside of the box every time. She knows how to maintain the chase in a relationship, by not revealing all of her cards at once.
4. She’s not addicted to love
She is not in love with the idea of love, needing to be in love to be and feel complete. She knows and is certain that she is complete and worthy, with or without romantic love.
In fact, she doesn’t need love and is not actively finding it. Rather, she enjoys her life. She doesn’t latch on to whichever man comes along, believing that she has the choice and that she will choose the right man she wants based on the standards she has set.
She doesn’t settle for anything else.
5. She is down to earth.
She is capable of going with the flow in any situation. She is capable of savoring the little things in life. Who knows what is truly important in life such as family, friends, love, and connection. Men want a woman that is honest but practical, she knows how to have fun whether it is going on a crazy adventure or staying in and cooking dinner and watching a movie.
6. She’s powerful and confident
She has total control and awareness over her emotions, being vulnerable and independent at the same time. She doesn’t cling or pull at her man when he seems distant or withdrawn, allowing him to enjoy his time away from her but at the same time honest with him that she misses him.
She respects what her heart feels and doesn’t lash out on her man for making her feel that way.
7. She’s the opposite of clingy
When a relationship is over, she can walk away without drama, even if the man is the first one to ghost away. Conversely, she also ends the relationship if she feels it is no longer serving her or her man. She doesn’t cling to the idea of “love” when it clearly isn’t working for them anymore.
8. She pursues her passion
A woman of high-value and integrity will have her own friends, hobbies, passions, and things when her boyfriend isn’t with her. If a guy wants a night out for himself or hangs out with his friends without you, an irresistible woman won’t make a huge deal out of it or do something totally unattractive or desperate to get invited. You will unhappy, and will also make your man miserable if you make him the center of your life. He will never do the things you always wanted to do, and you’ll make him feel guilty all the time of not doing things with you.