Not rocket science, relationships are just about taking care of all the little things. To make relationships grow and stay strong lifelong, there are several things that one needs to do. Especially with men, when dealing with them, women can do endless simple things to make sure that they also feel loved and cared for. And we are not talking about gifting your man with expensive things. We are talking about making a man feel loved and cared for through behavior. In relationships, women are usually the ones who are often pampered and showered with a lot of love and attention. However even men love to be pampered. Most men are not vocal and hardly express and that makes it a little difficult for women since they are left clueless thinking about what can they do to please them. But, we are here to help you deal with this confusion. We have listed down 12 tips to keep your man madly in love with you even after several years
1. Always curb in your impulses
Although it’s really hard, it would be good for both of you. You can have the best partner if you can find the temptation to act on provocation is strong in yourself to think things through and act rationally. Be that person, to have someone who is calm and composed no matter how crazy things are getting.
2. Be his best friend
Every man looks for a friend in his partner. If you want your man to appreciate you and love you more than ever, make sure you are his best friend first. Make him feel comfortable and assure him that he can share with you anything he wants just like he would do with his friends.
3. Don’t ever hide your brains
Beauty is important only for the initial attraction. If a woman is very smart, a man would like to spend the rest of his life. It is really supremely sᴇxʏ to show your intelligence.
4. Always be honest
If there’s no mutual trust between you and your man, you can’t survive for long. By being open to each other and honest, the trust comes. If you only be honest to him, he’ll also be honest to you and your life will make easier.
5. Give him his space
Sometimes, men love to be left alone . They love their space and get annoyed when that space is intruded. If he seems to be stressed or a little off, just give him some time to cool off. Also if he wants to be alone and do his usual stuff like watching his favorite shows or matches, just let him be. They deserve alone time too.
6. Look after him
You have to look after him are for his well being and let him see that you do. You’ll have a strong relationship when you love someone and support him and he knows it.
7. Respect yourself
Mutual respect is the most important factor in any relationship. He will respect you if you respect yourself. Don’t undermine and deny yourself. Just try to give some self-respect to yourself and you’d find a healthy balance.
8. Never bring up his past in fights
This is one thing that turns off most men. If you guys ever have a fight, never bring up his a past. There is a reason why it is called the past. He has chosen to move on and be with you. Thus, respect him and make sure you never bring up his past.Do not forget that he trusted you when he shared his past with you. Do not use this against him.
9. Be compassionate
Be kind and gentle for everyone. When you are kind and gentle to everyone, he would have the best reason to be with you. It is one of the most beautiful traits a human being can have and everyone loves and respects kindness and compassion in other people.
10. Show your sense of humor
If we don’t have any sense of humor, our life would really get bland and boring. You can have little jokes when things get too bothersome in your relationship and make it light. Even the hard times will pass easily if you can keep your humor intact.
11. Never go for the silent treatment
Ignoring your man during a fight or when he hurts you may seem like the best way to solve the situation. However truth be told, men hate the silent treatment and chances are he will ignore you more than you do. Like we said, being vocal and talking it out is always the best thing to do.
12. Be vocal about what you want from your man
Always voice your feelings when in a relationship. He is not a mind reader and he certainly can’t assume. Every time you want something from your man or are expecting something, be vocal. Just tell him what you need or what you feel and your man will appreciate you for this.
References: india.com, trulymind.org