8 Signs Someone Thinks Of You As A Fling & Isn’t Interested In A Relationship
1. You’re Never Asked To Meet The Friends
Usually, if someone is interested in you long-term, he or she will ask you to meet the friends, as you’ll get approval (which is clearly needed) and your partner will be able to see how well you bond with the group. Friends are super important, so taking that next step is critical in determining the relationship status.
2. You’re Not Facebook Friends
If your partner won’t friend you or accept a friend request on Facebook, it could mean that he or she is trying to hide you or doesn’t want you to get too close, where you might find photos with other dates and “flings”.
3. They’re Always Late
Saying you’ll be at a place at a certain time and constantly running late is annoying and a huge sign your guy is a dud. If you’re repeatedly late, it starts feeling like you don’t care about other people’s time. If your date arrived on time it shows that meeting you was a priority to him.
4. They Don’t Text Except For $ex
Texting or calling shows he cares about your well-being, which is a good indicator he will be there for you in times of need.
5. There Are Gaps In Communication
Someone who likes you and is interested in moving forward with you in a relationship will instigate or respond to messages and calls on a daily basis. If too much time passes between contact you know the person isn’t serious.
6. They Don’t Make Future Plans
If your partner only makes “spur of the moment plans,” or even does the dreaded, “11 p.m. booty call ” it means that he or she might think of you as a fling and not a serious match. You should be able to make set dinner dates and other plans in advance.
7. They Don’t Try To Learn About You
If he or she does not take a sincere interest in how things are going your life,” it can be a major red flag. This might be: “They rarely ask you questions about your past, childhood, family, or goals. In fact you never have any discussions of any real depth”.
8. You Always Initiate Get-Togethers
If you are always the one to initiate contact, making suggestions for things to do together or places to go; essentially trying to keep the magic alive then most likely, he or she doesn’t seem to miss you when you’re not together. This is also another sign there’s little interest in developing a deeper relationship.
If you notice any of these signs pop up in your relationship, it could mean that your partner doesn’t think of you as real relationship potential and might just be in it for the short-term. This could be totally fine if you’re on the same page, so communication is key.