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This here is a word of advice to any lady who’s met a really nice guy. Looks can be deceiving. Sometimes he’s truly just a solid man with lots to offer, but other times he’s a person who could ruin your life.
Here’s 7 signs that may suggest he could be a fake “nice guy”
1. He explicitly tells you he’s a nice guy
When a man constantly laments to you, “OMG it’s sooo hard being a nice guy because I can never get the girl”, well, he’s probably not a nice guy. If he continues with, “I guess nice guys like me always finish last”, then he really isn’t a nice guy. Nice guys don’t feel the need to constantly reaffirm the fact that they’re, well, nice.
2. He believes he knows what you want better than you do
“You don’t actually want to go overseas to study”, “You don’t want to cut your hair, girls with short hair are not as chio”, “You don’t actually want to be with him”, and of course, “You actually want to be with me”. Geez, did you get a diploma in mind reading.
3. He does nice things for you but starts getting calculative
He treats you to a fancy dinner, buys you a large bouquet of roses, and insists on sending you home. You’ve made it explicitly clear that you only see him as a friend and nothing more, but when you don’t invite him in, he starts to treat you differently and may even express his resentment by giving you the cold shoulder. He assumes that by doing all this, he’s entitled to sleeping with you and gets angry when he doesn’t get a bang for his buck. That, or he’s holding onto hope that somewhere down the line, you’ll suddenly see him as more than a friend.
4. He’s not nice to all women, just women he wants to bed
He’s all smiles and politeness with you, but when he’s around other women he’s suddenly dismissive. If he’s not polite and respectful to all women, chances are he’s only being nice to you to get into your good graces, not because he’s actually nice. Men like him are bound to have hidden agendas, so stay clear.
5. When the way he treats you feels “off” sometimes
He gets pissy if you don’t text back immediately and makes sure you acknowledge and thank him for all of his “nice deeds”. Most importantly, his intentions don’t seem pure. If it doesn’t feel right, it most likely isn’t. Trust me, your intuition is your best friend.
6. He says demeaning things after you rejected him nicely
His feelings are hurt, and he claims you’ve been leading him on the entire time. Angry, he calls you a bitch and a number of other choice names, throwing a fit more suited to a 5 year old child. You know you dodged a bullet, and you also know he’s off to repeat the cycle with another poor soul. Bye, Felicia.
7. “Nice” Guys Finish Last
Real nice guys don’t finish last. And even if they do, it’s because they let the ladies win first. It’s the douchebags who hide under the guise of “nice guy” that don’t get the girl, because we can see through your halo of bullshit and straight into your true self. Girls, save yourself the trouble and cut off the fake “nice guys” in your life. It’s really not worth it.