Sometimes, we hope that our partners will read our minds, but there are some things men want you to tell them bluntly. Making him guess how you’re feeling never ends well. Your relationship will work better if you’re both completely honest with each other, even when you think he should already know how you feel. Here are the top things men want you to tell them, so that they’re absolutely sure of your thoughts.
1. What You Like
When it comes to closeness, men always want open communication. If they’re doing something wrong, they want to be told bluntly so that they can fix it. Your man wants to please you; let him! Men can’t read your mind, so be as open and communicative as possible about what you like and what you don’t like.
2. When You’re Angry
Men have a hard time picking up on when you’re angry, especially if you’re acting like you’re not. Unless you want to just let it all slide, you need to tell your man that you’re angry. Men wear anger on their sleeve and expect their women to also display their anger in more obvious ways. Don’t hide your angry feelings.
3. What You’re Worried About
It isn’t fun telling your partner about your concerns, but if the relationship is going to survive, it’s a must. Being blunt about the bad things between the two of you will be what builds a lasting relationship. This is all about being as obvious as possible about your concerns because your man won’t be able to guess what’s going on inside your head.
Being blunt isn’t always the easiest thing to do, but it’s necessary to maintain a healthy relationship. Doing these things will put you in the arms of your soulmate in no time at all.
4. What’s wrong
We’ve all said that we’re ‘fine’ when we’re actually upset. Your man probably knows that you’re annoyed with him, but has no clue why. Instead of making him reconsider every move he’s made in the past week, he’d prefer you to simply air your grievances. The fight won’t last as long when he knows exactly what he did wrong. The biggest things men want you to tell them are the reasons they messed up. That way, they can prevent doing it again in the future.
5. What Gifts You Want
You don’t have to completely spoil the surprise, but men like to be given hints about what you want for your birthday, Christmas, and other holidays. Simply stating something general and letting him figure out the specifics will work well for both of you. He won’t have to guess what you like and you’ll get gifts you will really appreciate.
6. What Your Plans Are
Men are just as eager to find somebody that they can spend the rest of their lives with as women are. They don’t want you to wait until you’re well into the relationship to tell them what you want in life, such as how many kids you want and where you want to live. Be up front and, in return, you’ll find out your compatibility before you get too far into the relationship. If you want a casual or serious relationship with a man, you should make your intentions known to the guy as well.
7. What restaurant
It can take hours to decide where to go for dinner. By the time you choose, the place will be closed, and it’ll be time for bed. If you have a particular restaurant in mind, tell him what it is. You don’t want to waste time by having him suggest different places and turning down each of them.