Everyone has their tastes when it comes to being attracted to someone. Some people are more concerned with the physical side of relationships, while others rely on deeper ties.
In any case, men and women aim to impress the opposite gender by inculcating some of these characteristics and attributes in themselves to look more pleasant.
However, you might make a mistake and throw everything out. If you think the following things are attractive to women, especially guys, you’re wrong
1. Being in extremely good shape.
Of course, women also pay attention to how a guy looks. However, they rarely need a man who goes to gym every day of the week. Men think that women don’t like it if they don’t look fit. What women are really attracted to are a healthy looking body, confidence and taking care of your overall well-being.
2. Being the bad guy
Men have begun to believe that women are attracted to bad boys! No, that is completely incorrect. If you’re going to be mean or rude to the woman you’re trying to impress, she’ll become uninterested in you before you know it. At the same time, don’t try to create the illusion of being nice solely in exchange for something, like s.e.x. Don’t try to please a woman by being a people pleaser. If you are genuinely nice, kind, humble, and respectful to the woman, she will notice you.
3. Playing games with women.
If you wait the same amount of time to text a woman you like back as she waits to text you back, you will only push her away. While she may be really busy and texts you once in an hour because of it, you do it because you want to make her feel the same way as you feel when you don’t get an immediate text back. This behavior is not attractive at all.
4. Making good money
Most women are unconcerned about your financial situation. You can be a wealthy man, but if you’re insecure and try to use your wealth to attract a woman, it won’t work. In fact, you’ll end up attracting a woman who likes you not for you, but your money. Make good money, but more importantly, make a good living for yourself. Stop thinking you can buy a woman’s attraction by flashing her cash.
Arrogance or confidence – these two characteristics are mistakenly thought to be attractive by men. An arrogant man is unconcerned about what others think of him. A confident man, on the other hand, will consider the opinions of others but will not change his behaviour solely to gain approval. An arrogant man brags about his accomplishments. A confident man, on the other hand, will talk about his passions because he is enthusiastic about them. People in general, not just women, can sense whether someone is confident or not. Stop being cocky and arrogant and start being confident instead if you want to attract a woman.
6. Being an “alpha male”.
Some men believe that if they never showed their vulnerable side and treated everyone aggressively, they would be a real man and this quality would help them get a woman of their dreams. Instead of trying to be someone you are not because society dictates how you are supposed to behave, you should try to be the best version of yourself and this quality will attract women for sure.