Are there even any signs that reveal he thinks about you a lot? Can you use his behavior to find out whether you’re on his mind?
Well, even though it sounds weird, looking at the signals a guy’s sending you is a great way to figure out what he’s thinking about, especially because men rarely openly talk about their feelings.
So, instead of waiting for him to tell you what he’s thinking, it’s much easier to learn how to decipher his behavior. And even though it sounds impossible, it’s actually quite simple.
Once you know what you should be looking for, you’ll be able to read all those secret messages a guy’s sending you.
Buckle up as we’re about to look for the signs he thinks about you a lot. Be prepared to have your mind blown by the meanings behind all those little things he does for you.
1. He Follows You On Social Media
This applies only if he’s into using social media. Whether it’s Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, or whatever. If you’ve got a social media profile, he’s following it.
Even better is if you notice him liking your posts or even commenting on them. While he could just lurk and follow your accounts casually, interacting with you on them shows he wants to be included and have you notice him.
Again, this only applies if he’s into social media… lots of men really aren’t, so don’t worry if he’s someone that doesn’t really use social media.
2. He texts you all day long
Believe me, he wouldn’t be doing it if you weren’t always on his mind.
He wakes up, remembers you, and sends you a good morning text. Throughout the day, you’re always in touch, and then right before he falls asleep, he texts you goodnight.
These things mean a lot and can tell you a whole lot about how a guy feels about you.
He wouldn’t force himself to send you a message as guys don’t really enjoy texting people who don’t mean much to them. In that event, their messages get dry and their answers vague.
But this guy is constantly involved in the conversation with you that’s going back and forth. He makes sure he doesn’t leave you on unread for a long time so he’s always checking his phone to see whether you replied to the previous text.
This goes to show that you’re always on his mind and he can’t stop thinking about you. When you don’t reply for an hour or two, he probably gets worried and he maybe even double-texts you just to see whether everything’s okay.
3. He Mentions That Something Reminded Him Of You Or Something About You
Often, when you hang out, he tells you that recently, he saw something that reminded him of you. Maybe he heard your favorite song or he had pasta for lunch and he remembered that it’s your favorite dish.
This is also one of the signs he thinks about you a lot. He knows you well and there are many things that trigger him to think about you.
Even if he’s taking a walk by the river, he’ll say to himself that you would enjoy the route as he knows that you love doing the same.
It looks like you live in his mind rent-free and he can’t stop thinking about you. Even if he forced himself to, there would still be something that would make him think of you, at least for a second.
4. He Says He’s Been Thinking About You
Why else would he say it if it’s not true? If he says he’s been thinking about you, you really have been on his mind.
He might also say it indirectly, like mention a way to help you or solve a problem that you mentioned at another time. When he likes you, he’ll find an excuse to bring up something he’s been thinking about to show that he pays attention and is interested in you.
5. His family and friends seem to know a lot about you
It’s not only that he introduces you to his family and friends but it also seems that they know a lot about you before you even meet them. So you can’t help but wonder who told them all these things.
Well, this is another sign he thinks about you a lot. You’re always on his mind, so he often shares details about you with his family and friends.
He told them about your job, about your bubbly personality, and even about your life goal to travel the world. He’s so proud to have you around and he feels the need to let everyone know how amazing of a person you are.
This goes to show how much time he spends thinking about you. As a result, he can’t stop himself speaking highly of you in front of others since you’re the only one who’s always on his mind.
6. He Doesn’t Use His Phone Around You.
A guy who doesn’t care about you will get distracted by his phone, ignore you, or otherwise be rude. If he’s got his phone put away and isn’t checking it all the time, it’s a good sign he values his time with you.
He wants to give you his full attention without distractions and hear what you have to say. He’s showing you clearly with his actions that he values your time together and wants to enjoy it without distractions.
References: thinkaloud.net, vixendaily.com