5 TELLTALE signs he is sorry for hurting you and feels guilty
These signs he feels guilty for hurting you don’t lie. When we get hurt by the person we love, it often feels like the worst kind of betrayal.
It doesn’t matter what they did – heartbreak is heartbreak. I mean, he hurt you, so why should you care if he feels guilty or not? Well, figuring out if he feels guilty can clue you in on whether or not he has something to feel guilty about.
His behavior can tell you if he actually has some form of remorse over something he did to you. If he feels guilty for hurting you, he likely won’t say sorry. Instead, he might actually be trying to earn your trust back.
1. He apologises
He will apologise to you if he feels bad about letting you go and regrets his decision. It is his way of making amends and of convincing you to give him and the relationship another chance.
2. He buys you gifts
A telltale sign a guy is feeling guilty for something he knows will hurt you is buying you gifts. Yes, he may just be a nice guy, but if this is out of the ordinary and you have been getting a weird vibe, don’t overlook it. If he isn’t the type of guy who buys you gifts, then this is an obvious one.
3. He starts fights because he feels like he deserves to be yelled at
This is sort of a psychological sign, but a sign nonetheless. He purposely starts fights because he feels he deserves it for what he did to you. Here’s the thing, men really don’t start fights *who in their sane mind would want a fight?*
4. He avoids you
The eyes really are the window to the soul, so if he actively avoids you and can’t look at you, there’s a reason for this. If he avoids spending time with you or can’t look you in the eye when you are together, he is almost definitely keeping something from you.
5. He says he doesn’t deserve you
Ahhh yes, the most classic line and sign ever! The line “I don’t deserve you” never gets old. Now, why would a cheater say something like this? Because he feels guilty.
He knows what he is doing is wrong, so instead of doing the right thing, he simply says something like this to make you feel like he adores you rather than that he is secretly hurting you.
The only reason he would say he doesn’t deserve you rather than doing the action to actually deserve you is that he already hurt you, and it’s too late for redemption.