10 Signs You’re already with the guy you’re supposed to marry
If you and your partner have the following 10 qualities in your relationship, you’ll make a great match for marriage—when the time is right for YOU.
And you probably shouldn’t let him go…
1. He doesn’t make you feel anxious or nervous.
He never really gives you any anxiety or nervousness in your relationship. The whole world could be throwing a flurry of problems your way. You might be feeling overwhelmed with everything that is happening to you. But a single embrace from him would be enough to make you feel okay and at peace.
2. He opens himself up to your criticism.
He is never the type of guy who becomes defensive whenever you try to give him constructive feedback about the way he conducts himself. He is humble enough to accept that he isn’t perfect and that there is substantial room for improvement. And it also shows that he truly values your thoughts and opinions.
3. He does whatever he can to make your life easier and more comfortable.
He really puts in the extra effort to make sure that you are as happy and as comfortable as possible. He never wants you to feel like you have to make it in this world on your own. He’s always going to be on your side every step of the way.
4. He shows a willingness to make sacrifices for your relationship.
This is proof that he is willing to put the needs of the relationship above his own personal selfish desires. He is more concerned with making sure that the relationship stays afloat than satisfying his own ego. He puts the relationship over his own self.
5. He shares the same fundamental values and principles as you do.
It’s not enough that the two of you love one another. It’s also important that you both have compatible personalities. The two of you need to have personalities, worldviews, principles, values, and traits that would mesh well with one another. This would minimize the friction in the relationship and make the ride a little smoother.
6. You Respect and Support Each Other
You back each other in your careers, hobbies and friendships outside of your relationship. When you’re with others, you only refer to them with respect and kindness, and your pride is evident. When you’re away from each other you’re not tempted to stray and loyalty and honesty are upheld.
6. You have compatible goals for the future.
Both of you talk about having a future commitment without fear. You feel excitement about possibly being together for the rest of your lives. You see the ability to grow together as a couple.
7. He stays honest and open to you.
He never wants you to feel like you won’t be able to trust him. He always makes it a point to stay honest and true to you. He always wants to make sure that you never have to doubt his sincerity or realness. With him, what you see is what you get. And so, you never have to worry about any unwanted surprises when you’re together.
8. You Want To Resolve Conflicts In A Healthy Way
You and your partner can work through any problems in a constructive manner. All relationships will endure conflict, but having the desire to resolve conflict and then continue loving each other is essential to a healthy and lasting bond. All relationships take work. You must want to put in the effort.
9. He loves you for who you are.
Your partner loves you for the person you are and makes you feel good about yourself. Self-improvement is a great goal to strive for, but it’s SELF-improvement — you do it for yourself. People should want to grow and become better, but you need to find a partner who loves YOU and isn’t trying to change you to fit their needs.
10. He makes you feel like you’re the only girl in the world for him.
He does whatever it takes to make you feel safe and secure with him. He is never going to make it seem like he’s going to leave you one day for someone better. He always does things that make you feel like he doesn’t take you for granted. He makes sure that you feel like you’re the only girl in the world for him.