10 Reasons Why Even a Woman Who Loves You Madly Can Leave You for Good
Everything seems perfect. She loves you. You know she does, and she’s so magical and beautifully unpredictable. You think your world is spinning on its axis and then suddenly, something throws it off kilter. She packs up and leaves.
We’ve put together a list of ten reasons why she may be totally and completely in love with you and yet still choose to walk out the door.
10. She doesn’t feel that she can rely on you.
Even women who love their freedom a lot want to be able to lean on somebody when they need them. And there are periods in women’s lives (like pregnancy or maternity leave) when they need men a lot. Only a reliable person can make a woman feel comfortable.
9. She is tired of meeting your requirements.
Always being in great shape and in a good mood, cooking unique food, reading intelligent books, and being able to communicate with your friends — this is a long list of demands, don’t you think? It’s really tiring to have to constantly meet someone’s requirements all the time.
If you are demanding too much, your requirements could push her away.
8. She doesn’t feel like she is the only one.
And it’s not just about cheating. For women, it’s important to see that you love them and to not see you looking at other women.
7. She is tired of your lack of trust and need for total control.
She has to ask you to spend time with her gal pals. She has to text you while she is out with them. She has to check in with you regularly. Can we talk about how overbearing this is? If you are suspicious of everything she does on social media and in real life and if you expect her to report everything to you, she is not going to be happy. If you don’t trust her – you shouldn’t be with her in the first place.
And if you have real reasons to not trust your girlfriend, why not leave her first?
6. You are a source of negative emotions.
She has things she wants to do in life and dreams she wants to fulfill. If you aren’t happy or you just really don’t want to do anything new then you are probably holding her back. Doubting her dreams just because you are always negative will make her want to move on so she can enjoy her life.
5. You are from 2 different worlds.
At the very beginning of a relationship, when we are too much in love to care, we can’t think clearly and we ignore a lot of things like the families we are from, who our friends are, and so on. Only after some time, when the euphoria wears off, do we realize that his friends are people you would never talk to or that her family is absolutely unbearable.
4. You are too childish.
A childlike smile can be sweet and attractive. Pitching a fit because you can’t get the newest gaming system is a whole different story. If you are constantly acting like a child, how could she ever see you as someone to be a father to her future children?
3. She is tired of giving without receiving.
Giving without getting anything in return? Good relationships don’t work this way. 2 single adults can be together only when both of them really want the relationship and when they consistently express their feelings in words and through actions.
2. She is not sure you know what you want.
If you change your mind all the time about little things, how can she depend on you for the big things? If you don’t know what you want or present yourself like you don’t she’ll feel like she can never make any plans with you.
1. Your plans for the near future are not the same.
You know what you want, she knows what she wants. The problem is, your future plans are really different or contradict each other. For example, she just finished some design courses, learned a language, and is looking into jobs abroad. You’re not going to move from your city or country and you’re looking to build a small house with a nice garden not far from your parents.
Do you agree with these reasons? If you have your own ideas, share them with us!
Source: apost.com, brightside.me