Do you ever wonder if the man you are seeing likes you for who you are or is just there for the şέx?
Trust me, we’ve all been in that situation and it can be a bit hard to tell sometimes!
However, there are some positive signs that a man likes you for more than just your body! Let’s take a look at them
1. He calls you just to chat
When he calls you, he doesn’t only make flirtatious or 𝕤𝕖𝕩𝕦𝕒𝕝 comments. He’s keen to chat about your day, serious topics, or have a laugh. He might even tell you that he called just to hear your voice.
2. He worries
Another one of subtle signs he loves you for more than just your body is when he cares and worries about you. A man who loves you will worry about you when you’re sick and will give you his jacket when you’re cold, even if it’s the middle of the winter and giving you his jacket will mean that he’ll freeze and get sick. Sometimes they even become too worried, which can be irritating but that’s how men are.
3. He keeps you satisfied
When it comes to şέx, the guy’s all about making sure you get lots of pleasure. He’s not selfish in the bedroom, which is a good sign that he cares about making you feel satisfied and happy.
4. He can sleep with you
We’re talking about actual sleeping here! If a guy’s really into you and wants to be with you for more than your body, he’s going to be able to sleep with you in a bed instead of associating lying down with having şέx every single time. Sleeping together also forms part of building a bond with each other and connecting on levels other than the physical.
5. He asks for your advice
Regardless of the area – clothes, a birthday gift for a family member or a friend, whatever – the fact that your boo wants to hear your opinion on the matter is a clear indication that he really is into you, that he respects you and what you think, and you’ve got a big place in his life.
6. He touches you
Men who are just in for the, well, ride, are not in the habit of touching the woman outside the bedroom. If he holds your hand, embraces you and takes every little chance to touch any part of you, this means he’s most definitely not just in for the bedroom fun.
7. He respects your needs
Another sign that a man likes you for more than just your body is when he respects your needs (and goes out of his way to meet them). Your needs are important and any man who likes you a lot should respect them. This could be anything from your need to have a night out with your friends to your need for a little time alone. If he respects your needs, he will not make you feel guilty about them and will try to meet them. Of course, you should also meet his needs in return, that’s part of a healthy relationship. He will make you feel like you’re a priority in his life. That’s another good sign that he likes you for more than just your body.
8. You’re in his future
Another one of subtle signs he likes you for more than just your body is when he sees you in his future. If a guy is serious about you, he makes you part of all his future plans, and that doesn’t just mean next summer holiday. You’re also in his long-term plans and he’s not afraid to tell you this or, at least, hint it. Do you really need any further proof he’s into you?
8. He always has time for you
Another one of subtle signs he likes you for more than just your body is when he has time for you. It’s all about prioritisation. The more important something or someone is for you – or your man – the more likely you are to make time for it, right? So, if he finds the time to see you at the end of a busy day, even for a little bit, then rest assured that you’re not just a fling.
9. He defends you
This means that even if you’re wrong, he’d never say so in front of other people, he’d defend your position. Then, in private, he may criticise you but he’ll be delicate about it, not make a big deal out of it. If you’re right, he’ll be your staunchest defender.
10. He says “We”
When “we” replaces “I”, you know you’ve got a keeper. Add to this his dilated pupils every time he sees you – OK, you’ll have to get close to him to notice this, granted – and any of the above signs, and you can officially part company with your “single” status.
References: ideapod.com, citifmonline.com, bolde.com